Leadership Minute: How Do You See Yourself?

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Zig Ziglar said, “You cannot perform in a manner inconsistent with the way you see yourself.” This is certainly a truism of leadership. The way in which you see yourself is the manner in which you will perform. The way you see others in large part determines the way you treat them. How you treat them influences the way they perform. The challenge as a leader is to see yourself and others through the eyes of grace and possibilities. It’s through eyes of grace that we are able to move forward despite what we see. It’s through the eyes of possibilities that we move forward with courage. When you join the two you have great potential.

 

 

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Know When To Let Go

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When you have got an elephant by the hind legs and he is trying to run away, it’s best to let him go. – Abraham Lincoln

A well-known story in some sectors of coastal communities such as where I live is that of the crab mentality. It is used to describe selfish or short-sighted people whose thinking bends toward the notion of, “If I can’t have it, neither can you”.

The crab basket mentality says that if you have a pot of crabs and one is climbing out in an effort to escape then the others will pull him back down rather than allow it to go free.  The other crabs had rather share the same doomed fate than allow another among its ranks to climb out.

As a leader you may find yourself in a crab basket with others who have the same intentions for you. You get the raise or promotion and inevitably someone is jealous and you feel that subtle tug. You landed that coveted new account and strangely now begin to feel the claws of others around you. Every time you make an effort to move up and better yourself you have to resist the tug of those who would like to pull you down and hold you back. But you have to learn to let them go. Here are three things to consider as you climb out of the crab basket.

Let go of your past. Before anyone in your present can restrict you in a negative way you must lighten your load and let go of negative things from your past. So long as you hold on to past defeats, mistakes, or bad attitudes you will never climb to the heights you desire.

Your climb to the top of the basket begins when you make peace with your past and place yourself in a position to climb unencumbered toward your goals and dreams. When you let go of the past you can create your future. Your climb up begins here. You may have to forgive others; you may have to forgive yourself. But you will not move up so long as you allow your past to hold you down.

Let go of bad people. This is perhaps one of the hardest things to learn as a leader. But if you are ever going to climb your way to the top of the basket and live above the level of mediocrity you will have to separate yourself from those who want to hold you down.

It may be hard because up until now you may have seen these crabs as your friends. They have been colleagues; you have enjoyed happy hour together, and thought of them as allies. But keep this in mind – good people do not try to sabotage your success they celebrate it. Good people do not try attempt to pull you down and but had rather climb up with you. As a leader you have to wise up and recognize that not everyone in the pot with you wants to see you succeed. Be strong enough to acknowledge it and have the courage when necessary to climb alone.

Let go of small dreams. In the bottom of the crab basket there is not much room for growth and the view is always the same. The way out is up. It’s when you fix your eyes on larger dreams and possibilities that you begin to realize that life in the basket is never going to change. The road to your improvement begins with the choice to climb out.

It’s been written and asked many times but I will share it again here: What would you attempt to do if you knew that you could not fail? What are you dreams? I don’t know what’s in your heart but I do know this to be true – until you let go of your past, and let go of bad people, you will always have small dreams. It’s time to let go of every bad attitude, toxic relationship, and negative influence that would attempt to pull you down.

Your way out begins with by taking the first step. Let go and start climbing!

 

© 2013 Doug Dickerson

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Leadership Minute: Finish Strong!

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John Wooden said, “It’s not so important who starts the game but who finishes it.” Welcome to Friday! Has it been a long week? Finishing strong is an essential trait of your leadership. After all, it’s not so much what you start that matters but in what you finish. Starting strong and finishing strong is made possible by having the right people in the right place all working in their area of strength. It’s easy to get weary in the battle and at times to let our guard down. Focus today on your strengths and what makes you and your team a success. The finish line is in sight. Run your race. Finish strong!

 

 

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Leadership Minute: Live it!

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Søren Kierkegaard said, “The highest and most beautiful things in life are not to be heard about, nor read about, nor seen, but if one will, are to be lived.” Stop for a moment and consider the measure of your leadership. Are you living it? There comes a time in your life as a leader that contentment won’t be found with anything less than living it. As a leader, don’t fall into the trappings of popularity or being seen. The highest honor of leadership is discovered in serving others. The satisfaction of leadership is the purity of your motives. The reward of leadership is peace of mind and heart. Are you living it?

 

 

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Leadership Minute: Know When To Let Go

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Abraham Lincoln said, “When you have got an elephant by the hind legs and he is trying to run away, it’s best to let him go.” As a leader we have to know not only what is worth fighting for but when it’s time to let go. It could be that what we are holding on to is the very thing that we need to let loose such as a bad attitude or negative thoughts. Perhaps there is someone who is holding you back, pushing you down, or blocking your dreams—let them go. It’s when you turn loose of the negative influences that you free yourself to become all that you were meant to be. Let it go!

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Leadership Minute: Are We Having Fun Yet?

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Amelia Earhart said, “Flying might not be all plain sailing, but the fun is worth the price.” By any measure, leadership can be tough. The demands are constant and there are usually bumps in the road. But there is a flip side. Despite the weight and responsibility that accompanies your leadership there is something to be said about the satisfaction that comes from knowing you are doing what you were born to do. The fun begins when you realize that it is not about a position or title, but in living your passions. When you discover your purpose you will find the joy. Are you having fun yet?

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Leadership Minute: Play Your Hand Well

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Denis Waitley said, “Success in life comes not from holding a good hand, but in playing a poor hand well.” Not every hand you are dealt is going to be a good one. It’s just the way life works. As a leader it is not so much the hand you are dealt but the attitude you choose that will set you apart. It’s easy to play a good hand well and create the outcome you desire. The test of your leadership is found in taking the poor hand you were dealt and playing it well. Everything happens for a reason. Your challenge is to find the purpose.

 

 

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In a Cave with a Bear on a Sunny Day: Lessons for Leaders in a Jam

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Circumstances don’t make a person; they reveal him or her. – Richard Carlson

The story is told of two hunters who came across a bear so big that they dropped their rifles and ran for cover. One man climbed a tree while the other hid in a nearby cave. The bear was in no hurry to eat, so he sat down between the tree and the cave to reflect upon his good fortune.

Suddenly, and for no apparent reason, the hunter in the cave came rushing out, almost ran into the waiting bear, hesitated, and then dashed back in again. The same thing happened a second time. When he emerged for the third time, his companion in the tree frantically called out, “Woody, are you crazy? Stay in the cave till he leaves!” “Can’t,” panted Woody, “there’s another bear in there.”

It’s certainly not uncommon as a leader to be in tight spots from time to time. Like the two hunters you can find yourself in a bear jam that can alter the course of your day in a hurry. And when you take into consideration the way stress impacts your team members then it is important as a leader to put it all in perspective.

Research conducted by businessknowledgeresource.com (http://bit.ly/11Kaa6Y) cited some of the top causes of stress at work that include: no appreciation, no feedback good or bad, unclear policies and no sense of direction, random interruptions, and lack of control to name a few. If these causes or any other infringe on the daily demands of your leadership then the necessity for perspective will be even greater.

We learn from the example of the hunters four lessons to consider when you find yourself up a tree, in a cave, or otherwise stressed out by the demands of your job.

Don’t panic. The first mistake the hunters made after discovering the bear was to drop their rifles and run. They immediately gave up any leverage they had by making a hasty decision based upon their assumptions.

When your first inclination as a leader is to panic without gathering all the facts you place those around you in compromising positions. Not every problem is as bad as it may appear at first glance and if you stay calm under pressure you can make smarter decisions.

Stick together. Each hunter reacted in a way that seemed right at the moment. One climbed a tree and the other ran into a cave. Now instead of being united in strength they are divided in weakness and have multiplied their problems. By doing their own thing they limited their options.

Sticking together and working together is a Leadership 101 principle. But when you consider the predicaments you can find yourself in when you ignore it then it makes the reminder worth repeating. John Wooden said, “It’s what you learn after you know it all that counts.” And in this case it can make the difference between sitting atop a tree as a meal-in-waiting for a bear and using your leadership skills to your advantage. Play it smart and stick together.

Consider the big picture. In the heat of the moment the hunters did what they thought was best. We all do. But unfortunately they failed to keep the big picture in mind. Ultimately, it was not the bear they could see that was the problem but instead it was the one in the cave they didn’t see at first.

Having a clear understanding of the big picture of your organizational mission and values is an essential element of your leadership. It’s through the prism of the big picture that the smaller ones are put into context. Don’t allow your immediate short term problem to change your long term view.

Run in the right direction. Out of fear the hunters ran. One ended up in a cave and the other in the top of a tree. Each had a perspective that was created by the direction they ran and where they stopped. While their problem (the bear) was stationary their approach was scattered.

Moving in the right direction is essential to solving the challenges you face as a leader. Having everyone on the same page is important. While differing perspectives is valuable it will not do you any good if you are not working in harmony.

It’s as you refuse to panic that you succeed. It’s as you stick together you win bigger battles. It’s as you consider the big picture that you stay focused on your mission. And it’s as you run in the right direction you solve the right problems.

© 2013 Doug Dickerson

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Leadership Minute: Keep Moving!

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Elbert Hubbard said, “The world is moving so fast these days that the man who says it can’t be done is generally interrupted by someone doing it.” I suppose it is just natural for someone to say, “It can’t be done.” Negative people are not necessarily hard to find. But as a leader it is important that you keep moving. Never put down stakes next to negative people whose only intent is to hold you back. Keep your sights high, your vision clear, and your purpose strong. Keep moving in the direction of your dreams!

 

 

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Leadership Minute: Listen to the People in the Trenches

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Hans Finzel said, “Leaders by their very nature tend to be removed from the front lines of battle in the organization. Therefore they must listen to those in the trenches, relying on that information to make wise decisions.” It is a critical part of your leadership to listen to your people. It is essential that you listen to your front line people. Knowing, understanding, and responding to what it being said in the trenches positions you make better decisions and to deliver what they need to get the job done. Are you listening?

 

 

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