Leadership Minute: Look for the Good

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Weeds are flowers too, once you get to know them. – A. A. Milne

One of the challenges of leadership is finding the good in others when at times it may be hard. Let’s face it; there are just some people for whatever the reason who do not resonate with us. Perhaps it’s their bad attitude or some other characteristic that makes them difficult to like. But if you will train yourself you can learn to find the value in each person and the contributions they can make. At times it may be difficult to spot but look for the good in others and what role you can have in making a positive impact in their life. Some flowers are cleverly disguised as weeds.

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Leadership Minute: Content to Fail?

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My great concern is not whether you have failed, but whether you are content with your failure – Abraham Lincoln

On the journey of leadership there will be failures. I’ve had my share of mine, how about you? So the question is not whether we will fail but are we content with failure. Until you address this mindset and work to overcome it you will never rise to the level of success you desire. Until this issue is settled you will never reach your potential as a leader. Don’t be afraid of failure on your journey because you will experience it, but never allow yourself to be so comfortable with failure that you stop striving for excellence.

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5 Rules of the Blame Game

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A good leader takes a little more than his share of the blame, a little less than his share of the credit. – Arnold H. Glasow

John Killinger tells a story about the manager of a minor leader baseball team who was so disgusted with his center fielder’s performance that he ordered him to the dugout and assumed the position himself.

The first ball that came into center field took a bad hop and hit the manager in the mouth. The next one was a high fly ball, which he lost in the glare of the sun and it bounced off his forehead. The third was a hard line drive that he charged with outstretched arms; unfortunately, it flew between his hands and smacked his eye. Furious, he ran back to the dugout, grabbed the center fielder by the uniform, and shouted, “You idiot! You’ve got center field so messed up that even I can’t do a thing with it!”

The coach in the story reminds us of the type of culture we live in. The blame game is easy to play and in the end really serves no meaningful purpose. But as a leader if you want to grow, move your organization forward, and create a culture of excellence it’s going to require a different mindset in order to pull it off. Here are my five rules of the blame game that can help you navigate your way forward.

Begin with yourself.

In a “blame others first” culture this is where you are set apart as a leader. The tendency is to find someone to be the “fall guy” when things go south, but the leader steps up and takes responsibility. When you shoulder the responsibility as the leader you demonstrate that you are with and for your team not just in the good times but also when the chips are down. A good leader takes personal responsibility for his organization.

Look for solutions.

Once responsibility has been taken it’s then time to move beyond “who to blame” and work on solutions. This can be as simple as diagnosing a poor communication problem or perhaps something more complex. The point being; don’t dwell too long on who messed up but rather channel your energies on what to do next.

Attack bad attitudes.

In order to coalesce team members around a new culture of excellence and move past a blame game mentality you must address bad attitudes. “Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude,” stated Zig Ziglar. Bad attitudes will ground your organization and will be the single greatest challenge to your leadership. The work of your team will be a reflection of their attitudes. Attack bad attitudes, keep yours positive, and change your culture.

Manage mistakes wisely.

The way you mange mistakes can pay great dividends but it all depends on how you handle it. Rather than demoralizing the offender with a wrong response why not use it the opportunity to do something constructive? As a leader, how you handle the mistakes of others speaks volumes about what’s most important to you. Those who blame belittle. Be a leader who encourages and turns the mistakes into something positive.

Examine motives.

Understanding the blame game begins with identifying the motives for blaming others. Possibilities might include professional jealousy, subtle expressions of bullying, deflection off of one’s own insecurities, etc. By examining the motives of those caught in playing the blame game card you can learn a lot about the inner workings of your organizational dynamics and patterns. As a leader you need to have a handle on what is taking place in order to correct it.

Playing the blame game is too easy. Leading up is hard. Your leadership will rise when you rise up and do the right thing. If you want a better way forward then stop with the blame game.

What do you say?

© 2013 Doug Dickerson

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Leadership Minute: Growth By Conflict

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Difficulties are meant to rouse, not discourage. The human spirit is to grow strong by conflict. – William Ellery Channing

How nice it would be to grow as a leader divorced from any conflict or discouragement. But that’s not reality is it? Hang around in leadership long enough and you will have your share of difficulties, discouragement and conflict. But the good news is that each of those times of testing are making you stronger and preparing you to lead at a higher level. No amount of testing is ever in vain. Be encouraged as you go through the tough times. You are stronger than you realize!

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Leadership Minute: It’s All About People

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Too often we focus on the tactics and the techniques to build a business rather than the people who are the business. – Howard Behar

This is perhaps one of the easiest and most necessary pieces of advice leaders overlook in growing a business or in their personal development. It’s always about the people. The day you forget that it’s about people and believe it’s something else is the day you are in decline. Keep your focus where it belongs and watch your business and leadership grow. Don’t allow secondary but necessary things to replace your top priority which is mandatory. Keep people first and everything else will take care of itself.

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How Disagreements Can Work For Your Good

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Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.   – Albert Einstein

In his book, Living Above the Level of Mediocrity, Charles Swindoll tells of meeting a man who once served on one of Walt Disney’s original advisory boards. The early days were tough; but that remarkable creative visionary refused to give up.

What was particularly intriguing was how Disney responded to disagreement. He said that Disney would occasionally present some unbelievable, extensive dream he was entertaining.  Almost without exception, the members of his board would gulp, and stare back in disbelief, resisting the thought of such a thing. But unless every member resisted the idea, Disney usually did not pursue it. The challenge was not big enough to merit his time and creative energy unless they were unanimously in disagreement.

Taught by most in Leadership 101 is how to get along with others, build consensus, and to speak with one voice.  This art is practiced in many conference rooms as leaders measure success by their ability to squash resistance to their agenda and corral the “rebel rousers” who dare stand in the way. And this is where the practice of good leadership fundamentals with its predictable boundaries must embrace unlimited progress through constructive disagreement.

Insecure leaders will never accept or tolerate disagreement and see it as a form of rebellion that must be defeated. It reminds me of the time veteran baseball umpire Bill Guthrie was working behind home plate one afternoon and the catcher for the visiting team was repeatedly protesting his calls. Guthrie endured this for a number of innings, and then called a halt. “Son,” he said softly, “you’ve been a big help to me in calling balls and strikes today, and I appreciate it. But I think I’ve got the hang of it now, so I am going to ask you to go to the clubhouse and show whoever’s there how to take a shower.”

How do you handle disagreements? Do you take it personal? Do you punish those who disagree with you? Or do you, like Disney, embrace and welcome disagreement as a means to making large dreams come true? Here are three observations to help you embrace constructive disagreements and create a culture in your organization that welcomes all viewpoints.

Constructive disagreements unleash creative thinkers.

Disney refused to embrace small dreams. If the dream and the opposition were too small, it did not merit his time and creative energy. But he knew he was surrounded with gifted people. And he knew his team did not disagree for the sake of resistance, but ultimately they resisted the notion that the impossible was not within their power.

Erich Fromm said, “Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties.” And in like manner, it requires courage to let go of what others have labeled certain failure for what you believe are acceptable risks.  Creative thinkers set aside conventional wisdom and push through as a team to achieve the impossible.

Constructive disagreements unshackle big dreams.

It almost sounds like a contradiction. But real progress is made not when there is unanimous agreement about mediocre ideas but with disagreement on how to conquer large ones. The path of least resistance requires little. Not disagreement. It demands engagement, commitment, and a personal investment in the outcome.

Disney wanted to present his team with ideas and dreams that would challenge their traditional ways of thinking and tap into their creative genius. It is one thing as a leader to value and appreciate those who always agree with you, but in order to go to a higher level you have to be courageous enough to embrace the ideas and can-do spirit of those who disagree and trust them to deliver. What big dreams have you embraced?

Constructive disagreements produce undeniable results.

By embracing unanimous disagreements Disney and his team created magic that has endured for decades. Millions of people all over the world have experienced the wonders of the Disney brand.

Are you a leader with big dreams and great ideas? Your rise to the next level could be just one disagreement away from reality. As you unleash creative thinkers, unshackle big dreams, you too can attain big results. But first you must step out of your comfort zone and look at things in a new light…wouldn’t you agree?

© 2013 Doug Dickerson

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Leadership Minute: Starting Points

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Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start. – Nido Qubein

Your starting point as a leader is not conditioned upon your circumstances. Some might look at their present circumstances and question how in the world they can ever be a success or a good leader. Wherever you find yourself today is simply your starting point and not your final destination. Your present circumstances may not be of your liking but they are preparing your for larger opportunities in your future. Be encouraged and know that your resolve will take you to the places of your dreams if you purpose in your heart to go after it. But first you must start.

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How Big is Your Dream?

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Hope is a waking dream – Aristotle

August 28 marks the 50th anniversary of the “I Have a Dream” speech delivered by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in Washington, D.C. That speech sparked the conscience of the American people and helped to right the course of our history as a nation. As was the case in the dream that King embraced, your dream can lead you on a path of fulfilling your destiny if you choose to embrace it.

Whether it’s your state of mind about your job, or your unfulfilled dreams and aspirations, one thing is certain; the size of your dream and your attitude towards it matters. Have you felt like giving up lately? What dream have you walked away from? Discouragement will rob you of your dreams. Faith will cause you to press on despite your circumstances.

If you knew that you could not fail what big dream would you pursue? Peter Drucker said, “People who don’t take risks generally make about two big mistakes a year. People who do take risks generally make about two big mistakes a year.” Given the law of percentages why not enthusiastically pursue your dream? Here are four observations about dreams and why they matter and how they can change your life.

Failures in your past don’t define your future.

Historically we remember Abraham Lincoln as the 16th president of the United States. But few recall that when he first went into politics at the age of 23 he campaigned for a seat in the Illinois General Assembly and failed. He then opened a general store and it failed.

Churchill said, “Success is not final, failure is not fatal; it is the courage to continue that counts.” Your past failures are preparing you for your future. Many people don’t see their dreams become reality not because the dream wasn’t worth pursuing but because they gave up too soon. Stay the course.

Rejections by others can’t stop your destiny.

Millions of people the world over have visited the Disney parks, have read the Disney books, and have watched the Disney movies. We have enjoyed all of this because Walt Disney did not allow the rejection of a newspaper editor who fired him from his job for “lacking ideas” to keep him from believing in his ideas and dreams and making them a reality.

Be it past failures or rejections we have all at one time or another experienced the sting of these disappointments. And it’s during these times that you discover your dreams are going to live or die based on how you respond. Both Lincoln and Disney chose to go for the dream and it made all the difference. 

Your lack of education is no barrier to success.

Over the past 25 years who would you say has been the most influential movie director? Would you be surprised to learn that one person on the short list- perhaps even at the top, was a high school dropout? Steven Spielberg dropped out of high school and applied to attend film school three times but was unsuccessful due to his “C” grade average.  But I think such films as E.T., Saving Private Ryan, Schindler’s List, Jurassic Park, and may others would prove the critics wrong.

Your lack of education is not necessarily your demise or your dream killer. But believing that your lack of education will restrict you can hurt you. It’s not the grade given you by others that defines you. But if you believe in yourself and in the power of faith then no classroom will be able to contain your dream.

Physical limitations can’t restrict the human spirit.

Rick Hoyt was strangled by the umbilical cord during birth, leaving him brain damaged and unable to control his limbs. The doctors told his parents that he would be a vegetable the rest of his life. His parents didn’t buy it. While they easily could have complained about their lot in life they chose to turn their limitations into triumph. Today, Dick Hoyt, along with his son have competed his hundreds of marathons. Dick pushes him in a wheelchair and their story has inspired millions.

What you do with your limitations, rejections, lack of education, or past failures is up to you. You can either permit them to hold you back and not go after your dreams or you can use them as stepping stones to do something great.

How big are your dreams?

©2013 Doug Dickerson

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Leadership Minute: The Company You Keep

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The key is to keep company with those who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best. – Epictetus

As a leader you will cross paths with a large number of people. It comes with the territory. But the company you keep is different. The company you keep is special. They are the ones who despite knowing your quirks and shortcomings will always be there for you. They are the ones who will call forth your best, who believe in you and believe and in your potential. Aren’t you glad for people like that? Be friendly to all but be careful who you keep.

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Leadership Minute: Leadership in the Trenches

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God will not look you over for medals, degrees or diplomas, but for scars. – Elbert Hubbard

 

If you hang around as a leader long enough you will have scars. It’s just the nature of the business. But we are not called as leaders to a life of comfort and ease that is free from scars. When you lead from the trenches you know first-hand what it takes to get the job done, how to relate to your people, and lead with a greater sense of purpose. When you are engaged as a leader and have the scars to prove it you will have the respect of your people. Don’t be afraid to lead in the trenches. You will be a better leader for it.

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