How Disagreements Can Work For Your Good

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Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.   – Albert Einstein

In his book, Living Above the Level of Mediocrity, Charles Swindoll tells of meeting a man who once served on one of Walt Disney’s original advisory boards. The early days were tough; but that remarkable creative visionary refused to give up.

What was particularly intriguing was how Disney responded to disagreement. He said that Disney would occasionally present some unbelievable, extensive dream he was entertaining.  Almost without exception, the members of his board would gulp, and stare back in disbelief, resisting the thought of such a thing. But unless every member resisted the idea, Disney usually did not pursue it. The challenge was not big enough to merit his time and creative energy unless they were unanimously in disagreement.

Taught by most in Leadership 101 is how to get along with others, build consensus, and to speak with one voice.  This art is practiced in many conference rooms as leaders measure success by their ability to squash resistance to their agenda and corral the “rebel rousers” who dare stand in the way. And this is where the practice of good leadership fundamentals with its predictable boundaries must embrace unlimited progress through constructive disagreement.

Insecure leaders will never accept or tolerate disagreement and see it as a form of rebellion that must be defeated. It reminds me of the time veteran baseball umpire Bill Guthrie was working behind home plate one afternoon and the catcher for the visiting team was repeatedly protesting his calls. Guthrie endured this for a number of innings, and then called a halt. “Son,” he said softly, “you’ve been a big help to me in calling balls and strikes today, and I appreciate it. But I think I’ve got the hang of it now, so I am going to ask you to go to the clubhouse and show whoever’s there how to take a shower.”

How do you handle disagreements? Do you take it personal? Do you punish those who disagree with you? Or do you, like Disney, embrace and welcome disagreement as a means to making large dreams come true? Here are three observations to help you embrace constructive disagreements and create a culture in your organization that welcomes all viewpoints.

Constructive disagreements unleash creative thinkers.

Disney refused to embrace small dreams. If the dream and the opposition were too small, it did not merit his time and creative energy. But he knew he was surrounded with gifted people. And he knew his team did not disagree for the sake of resistance, but ultimately they resisted the notion that the impossible was not within their power.

Erich Fromm said, “Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties.” And in like manner, it requires courage to let go of what others have labeled certain failure for what you believe are acceptable risks.  Creative thinkers set aside conventional wisdom and push through as a team to achieve the impossible.

Constructive disagreements unshackle big dreams.

It almost sounds like a contradiction. But real progress is made not when there is unanimous agreement about mediocre ideas but with disagreement on how to conquer large ones. The path of least resistance requires little. Not disagreement. It demands engagement, commitment, and a personal investment in the outcome.

Disney wanted to present his team with ideas and dreams that would challenge their traditional ways of thinking and tap into their creative genius. It is one thing as a leader to value and appreciate those who always agree with you, but in order to go to a higher level you have to be courageous enough to embrace the ideas and can-do spirit of those who disagree and trust them to deliver. What big dreams have you embraced?

Constructive disagreements produce undeniable results.

By embracing unanimous disagreements Disney and his team created magic that has endured for decades. Millions of people all over the world have experienced the wonders of the Disney brand.

Are you a leader with big dreams and great ideas? Your rise to the next level could be just one disagreement away from reality. As you unleash creative thinkers, unshackle big dreams, you too can attain big results. But first you must step out of your comfort zone and look at things in a new light…wouldn’t you agree?

© 2013 Doug Dickerson

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Leaders Without Borders

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Dear Friends,

Why “Leaders Without Borders?”

If you are like me, you’ve read hundreds of books on the topic of leadership. And like you, I’ve grown and benefited from them and continue to grow my library of leadership books.

When I first set out to write “Leaders Without Borders” I concerned myself with two essential questions as I began.

First, what do I say to the novice leader starting out? How would I communicate leadership principles garnered over nearly 30 years of leadership experience that could be clear and concise?

Second, how would this book speak to seasoned leaders? What would make it any different from what has already been said in so many different ways?

The finished product resulted in identifying nine essentials that I believe are pertinent to any leader in any stage of leadership development. These timeless leadership principles are crafted around stories that will inspire and challenge you and perhaps help you to see a timeless principle shared in a new light. They are as follows:

  • Passion
  • Priorities
  • Optimism
  • Teamwork
  • Attitude
  • Authenticity
  • Loyalty
  • Kindness
  • Legacy

I believe that these essentials are what make leadership work. It’s as you put these essentials into practice that your leadership can grow, expand, and make a difference not only in your life but in the lives of those you lead.

Since the release of “Leaders Without Borders” I’ve been blessed to partner with businesses, schools, and churches to promote these leadership essentials and to grow and develop future leaders and veteran leaders alike.

Writing in the foreword to “Leaders Without Borders” my friend and noted leadership authority Mark Sanborn, author of The Fred Factor writes, “I rarely like easy answers because they are usually unrealistic. I do, however, like books that challenge a leader’s thinking and provide him or her with new insights that prompt action. This book by Doug Dickerson is that kind of book.”

I would like to invite you to discover for yourself what makes “Leaders Without Borders: 9 Essentials for Everyday Leaders” a book worth your time to read and perhaps one you would consider sharing with a colleague, friend, boss, pastor, or your child’s teacher. Your purchase also helps support the Management Moment Leadership Foundation (http://bit.ly/WJ755v) whose featured cause is St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. Priced at just $10 per copy would you consider buying an extra one to share?

Thank you so much for your readership, for making your purchase, and for your commitment to grow as a leader. Simply click on this link to my website and click the “Buy Here” button at www.dougsmanagementmoment.blogspot.com

Going forward my commitment to producing sound, practical and applicable leadership content remains my goal. Thank you for your support!

Leading with you!

Doug

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Leadership Minute: Proving Grounds

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Humility and inner peace go hand in hand. The less compelled you are to try to prove yourself to others, the easier it is to feel peaceful inside. – Richard Carlson

While it is understandable that leaders want the approval and acceptance of others it can be an unhealthy compulsion if not careful. As a leader, when you serve out of humility and less out of a need for approval you will take care of any ‘proving’ needs you may have. Don’t allow yourself to fall into the trap of believing that you have to prove yourself to anyone. Be the best version of you that you were created to be and live your life peacefully.

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Leadership Minute: Composure or Consequences

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Always keep your composure. You can’t score from the penalty box; and to win, you have to score. – Horace

Your composure is the single greatest external sign of your leadership style. While internally you may be anything but calm it is by maintaining your composure that you can sum up the situation you are dealing with, figure out the right response, and mobilize appropriate personnel and resources to deal with it. By failing to keep your composure you can make an already vulnerable situation even more complex and hurt the rest of your team. My suggestion is to be like a duck – calm on the surface and paddling crazy underneath.

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Leadership Minute: I Dare You

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It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult. – Seneca

We can either play it safe on the sidelines or we can dare to live life to the fullest. We can either take steps of faith or always be left to wonder ‘what if.’ Not every path you want to take comes with guarantees or without obstacles. And you will never fully know the depth of your dream and the strength of your resolve unless you dare to take the first step. Today can be the first day of realizing your destiny but you have to dare to believe that you can do it. I dare you to go for it!

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Leadership Minute: Faithful Leaders

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We live in a culture that overvalues fifteen minutes of fame and undervalues lifelong faithfulness. – Mark Batterson

Many adjectives can be used to identify leaders. One of the most endearing and enduring ones is the word faithful. While many seek their fifteen minutes of fame, faithful leaders are those who are constant, steady, and dedicated to being the best leader possible. They are the ones you can count on and in the good times and bad and from whose wisdom you can learn. Faithful leaders are not as concerned about basking in the limelight of today as they are about being a light for the next generation. Wherever you find yourself today, regardless of your station or status; be faithful!

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The Power of Servant Leadership

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Only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile. – Albert Einstein

A story is told that during the American Revolution a man in civilian clothes rode past a group of soldiers repairing a small defensive barrier. Their leader was shouting instructions, but making no attempt to help them.

Asked by the rider, he responded with great dignity, “Sir, I am a corporal!” The stranger apologized, dismounted, and proceeded to help the exhausted soldiers. The job done, he turned to the corporal and said, “Mr. Corporal, next time you have a job like this and not enough men to do it, go to your commander-in-chief and I will come and help you again.” The man was none other than George Washington.

“Leadership is practiced not so much in words as in attitudes and actions” said Harold S. Geneen. And this is the essence of servant leadership. When talk becomes action; when ones purpose as a leader transcends position, and serving others is the norm rather than the exception, that is when leadership is truly understood.

Former President George H. W. Bush was asked in a Time magazine interview as to whether he has seen a shift in the past twenty years in the public’s attitude toward service.  “I think so, I hope so,” he replied. “Many schools include a service project as part of their curriculum, and many corporations have in-house projects for their employees or give them time off to do volunteer work. There’s a greater understanding about the importance of giving back.” This is encouraging when you consider how great the need is today for servant leadership.

Servant leadership can transform your life and your business. Here are three simple insights to bring it into focus.

Service is the model of leadership.

The simplest definition of leadership comes from John Maxwell who defines it in one word– influence. A servant leader is one understands that his influence individually can make a difference, but collectively can make a huge impact.

When you rally your people, time, and resources around causes greater than self, you are modeling the greatest use of leadership. “Strong convictions precede great actions,” said James Freeman Clarke. He’s right. What great causes are you and your organization rallying around?

Service is the blessing of leadership.

“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven,” said Jesus (Matthew 5;16). The best way to “find yourself” is by serving others. It’s as you give of your time, talent, and treasure that you begin to see the world around you in a different light. Servant leadership has nothing to do with weakness or being a doormat, but has everything to do with using your gifts and talents in a positive way.

When was the last time you praised a co-worker for a job well done? Who is the colleague going through a difficult time that could use your encouragement? How about giving a gift card to your hard working admin to express your appreciation?  When the idea of being a blessing becomes your corporate culture you will move your business into a whole new realm of purpose.

Service is the reward of leadership.

Do you want to position your team for greatness? As you set the example of servant leadership within your organization, the buy-in among your team will have significant meaning. Simply put, there are some rewards that will come your way that have nothing to do with your bottom line.  But the change in your company culture will be priceless.

“Whoever renders service to many puts himself in line for greatness – great wealth, great return, great satisfaction, great reputation, and great joy,” said Jim Rohn.  Are you ready to open doors of greatness? As you become a catalyst for servant leadership it will open up new realities for you that you never knew existed.

Who will you serve today?

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© 2013 Doug Dickerson

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Leadership Minute: Starting Points

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Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start. – Nido Qubein

Your starting point as a leader is not conditioned upon your circumstances. Some might look at their present circumstances and question how in the world they can ever be a success or a good leader. Wherever you find yourself today is simply your starting point and not your final destination. Your present circumstances may not be of your liking but they are preparing your for larger opportunities in your future. Be encouraged and know that your resolve will take you to the places of your dreams if you purpose in your heart to go after it. But first you must start.

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How Big is Your Dream?

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Hope is a waking dream – Aristotle

August 28 marks the 50th anniversary of the “I Have a Dream” speech delivered by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in Washington, D.C. That speech sparked the conscience of the American people and helped to right the course of our history as a nation. As was the case in the dream that King embraced, your dream can lead you on a path of fulfilling your destiny if you choose to embrace it.

Whether it’s your state of mind about your job, or your unfulfilled dreams and aspirations, one thing is certain; the size of your dream and your attitude towards it matters. Have you felt like giving up lately? What dream have you walked away from? Discouragement will rob you of your dreams. Faith will cause you to press on despite your circumstances.

If you knew that you could not fail what big dream would you pursue? Peter Drucker said, “People who don’t take risks generally make about two big mistakes a year. People who do take risks generally make about two big mistakes a year.” Given the law of percentages why not enthusiastically pursue your dream? Here are four observations about dreams and why they matter and how they can change your life.

Failures in your past don’t define your future.

Historically we remember Abraham Lincoln as the 16th president of the United States. But few recall that when he first went into politics at the age of 23 he campaigned for a seat in the Illinois General Assembly and failed. He then opened a general store and it failed.

Churchill said, “Success is not final, failure is not fatal; it is the courage to continue that counts.” Your past failures are preparing you for your future. Many people don’t see their dreams become reality not because the dream wasn’t worth pursuing but because they gave up too soon. Stay the course.

Rejections by others can’t stop your destiny.

Millions of people the world over have visited the Disney parks, have read the Disney books, and have watched the Disney movies. We have enjoyed all of this because Walt Disney did not allow the rejection of a newspaper editor who fired him from his job for “lacking ideas” to keep him from believing in his ideas and dreams and making them a reality.

Be it past failures or rejections we have all at one time or another experienced the sting of these disappointments. And it’s during these times that you discover your dreams are going to live or die based on how you respond. Both Lincoln and Disney chose to go for the dream and it made all the difference. 

Your lack of education is no barrier to success.

Over the past 25 years who would you say has been the most influential movie director? Would you be surprised to learn that one person on the short list- perhaps even at the top, was a high school dropout? Steven Spielberg dropped out of high school and applied to attend film school three times but was unsuccessful due to his “C” grade average.  But I think such films as E.T., Saving Private Ryan, Schindler’s List, Jurassic Park, and may others would prove the critics wrong.

Your lack of education is not necessarily your demise or your dream killer. But believing that your lack of education will restrict you can hurt you. It’s not the grade given you by others that defines you. But if you believe in yourself and in the power of faith then no classroom will be able to contain your dream.

Physical limitations can’t restrict the human spirit.

Rick Hoyt was strangled by the umbilical cord during birth, leaving him brain damaged and unable to control his limbs. The doctors told his parents that he would be a vegetable the rest of his life. His parents didn’t buy it. While they easily could have complained about their lot in life they chose to turn their limitations into triumph. Today, Dick Hoyt, along with his son have competed his hundreds of marathons. Dick pushes him in a wheelchair and their story has inspired millions.

What you do with your limitations, rejections, lack of education, or past failures is up to you. You can either permit them to hold you back and not go after your dreams or you can use them as stepping stones to do something great.

How big are your dreams?

©2013 Doug Dickerson

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Leadership Minute: The Company You Keep

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The key is to keep company with those who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best. – Epictetus

As a leader you will cross paths with a large number of people. It comes with the territory. But the company you keep is different. The company you keep is special. They are the ones who despite knowing your quirks and shortcomings will always be there for you. They are the ones who will call forth your best, who believe in you and believe and in your potential. Aren’t you glad for people like that? Be friendly to all but be careful who you keep.

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