Leadership Minute: Watch and Listen

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Silence is a source of great strength. – Lao Tzu

One of the hardest lessons for a young leader to learn is that of silence. One of the hardest lessons for seasoned leaders is to remember it. Silence is a great tool for leaders. You can observe a while lot within your organization by paying attention and listening. What you can learn and the wisdom you gain will serve you well. The lesson here is simple. Don’t be afraid to listen when you are tempted to speak. Take time to process your thoughts. It could very well save you some grief by speaking too soon. Watch and listen. You will be the wiser for it.

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Leadership Minute: Saddle Up

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Courage is being scared to death…and saddling up anyway. – John Wayne

Leadership is not for wimps. It takes courage, tenacity and thick skin. Facing your fears is the best way to defeat them. Many people sacrifice their dreams and goals because they give in to their fears. I’d like to encourage you today to realize that no matter what you face or what you are going through, you can rise to the occasion and have success. You just have to take the first steps and saddle up. Face your fears. Step out in faith. You can do this!

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Leadership Minute: Show Respect

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Respect for ourselves guides our morals; respect for others guides our manners. – Laurence Sterne

Respect is an essential skill for leaders.  Self-respect guides your morals and is the lens through which you see the world around you and how you respond to it. Respect for others guides how you lead others. Whether or not you like a person is not as consequential as how you treat them. You can’t win them over if your manners are rude. It’s as you respect yourself and respect others you can be the effective leader you desire to become. If you want to be respected as a leader, be a leader that shows respect. It’s that simple.

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Three Leadership Lessons from Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer

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Then all the reindeer loved him as they shouted out with glee, Rudolph the Red-nosed reindeer, you’ll go down in history!– Robert L. May

For many years, the story goes; Montgomery Ward department store in Chicago purchased and gave away coloring books as a promotional during the Christmas season. In 1939, company executives wanted to do something that would both reduce costs and be new and different.

To help with the new project they turned to Robert L. May, a 34-year old Montgomery Ward copywriter who was known to dabble in children’s limericks and stories. His creation was a short story written in rhyming verse and differed from the version known today. The original Rudolph lived in the woods with his loving parents far from the North Pole.

May’s story became an immediate success. Montgomery Ward gave away 2.4 million copies of the story in 1939 and by 1946, despite wartime paper shortages; over 6 million copies had been distributed. Faced with large medical bills because of his wife’s battle with cancer, May asked Montgomery Ward officials if he could have the copyright to Rudolph turned over to him. The company agreed and that same year the story was published commercially.

May also asked his brother-in-law, songwriter Johnny Marks, to adapt his basic story idea to music. When Marks was done, one singer after another, including Bing Crosby, declined to record the song. Finally, in 1949, Gene Autry accepted and, Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer shot to the top of the charts. Autry’s version is now the second best selling Christmas song of all time, surpassed only by Crosby’s White Christmas.

From the song Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, come leadership lessons that are still applicable today. Here are three leadership lessons that will serve you well regardless of the season.

We all have natural gifts and abilities; embrace them.

Rudolph was the object of scorn by the other reindeer who mistakenly thought that because he was different from the others he didn’t have anything to contribute.

We all come in different shapes, sizes, and with unique gifts. It is not in the similarities that we stand out, but in our differences. The gifts and talents you bring to the table of your business or organization may not look like anything else in your company, but that is your gift. As you embrace and celebrate those gifts, others will also come to appreciate what you have to offer.

We all face opposition; ignore it.

Because his appearance was different from others around him, Rudolph faced opposition. There will always be an element of people who will oppose you not based on your appearance as in the story, but because you have a different perspective, you have a different attitude, and you bring an optimistic mindset to the challenges your company faces.

When you embrace that which causes you to stand out you are on your way to the top. Others can ridicule you or join you but the choice is theirs. Regardless of the opposition you face, never surrender your uniqueness to any opposition.

Your moment to shine will eventually come; welcome it.

It is your daily faithfulness in the little things that you prove yourself. Even though Rudolph faced opposition from the others, he didn’t allow their negativity to defeat him. In the moment of crisis when Santa needed a go-to Reindeer, Rudolph was ready. Armed with his natural giftedness and positive attitude, he navigated the team of fellow reindeer to a successful completion of the Christmas mission.

Your moment of destiny will come one day and it may not happen the way you expected. Open your eyes to all the possibilities that your leadership can provide. As you remain faithful your big moment will come.

This Christmas season, celebrate your gift as a leader, rise above your opposition, and stand ready to embrace your destiny. As you do, you will have a greater understanding of just how special the season can be.

 

© 2013 Doug Dickerson

* This column was originally written last year and is back by popular request.

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Leadership Minute: Answer the Right Door

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If you keep answering the door and your dreams never leap, you’re answering the door for the wrong people. – Joel Osteen

As a leader you will find that many people will knock at your door. But the key for you is to be discerning about whom to open it for. When gossips knock at your door; don’t open it. If complainers or whiners come knocking; don’t answer. The dreams you have and the work that is before you is too important. Don’t let negative people derail you or your dreams with their toxic ways. Embrace the people who will encourage you and lift you up. Be sure to open the right door.

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Leadership Minute: Find Your Strength

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Strength of character means the ability to overcome resentment against others, to hide hurt feelings, and to forgive quickly. – Lawrence G. Lovasik (Multiple attributions)

The strength of your character is developed not just in the good times, but is forged in adversity. People rub you the wrong way and rather than hold them in contempt, you overcome the resentment. When your feelings are hurt you learn to let it go and forgive. Is it easy to do? Of course not. But few things in leadership are easy and there are no shortcuts in developing strength of character. But you will be a better person and leader when you find your strength and lead with your head and heart.

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Five Questions Every Leader Must Answer About Change

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Change the changeable, accept the unchangeable, and remove yourself from the unacceptable. – Denis Waitley

The story is told of Karl Benz, who in 1866 drove his first automobile through the streets of Munich, Germany. He named his car the Mercedes Benz, after his daughter Mercedes. The machine angered the citizens, because it was noisy and scared the children and horses.

Pressured by the citizens, the local officials immediately established a speed limit for “horseless carriages” of 3.5 miles per hour in the city limits and 7 miles per hour outside the city limits. Benz knew he could never develop a market for his car and compete against horses if he had to creep along at those speeds, so he invited the mayor of the town for a ride.

The mayor accepted. Benz then arranged for a milkman to park his horse and wagon on a certain street, and, as Benz and the mayor drove by, to whip up his horse and pass them—and as he did so to give the German equivalent of the Bronx cheer. The plan worked. He mayor was furious and demanded that Benz overtake the milk wagon. Benz apologized but said that because of the ridiculous speed law he was not permitted to go any faster. Very soon after that the law was changed.

We all know that change can be hard to implement. One of the most challenging things you will do as a leader is to lead others through changes. It’s been widely written about and will continue to be a hot-button topic for leaders for years to come. Many oppose change because it leads them out of their comfort zones and because it’s something new. Others oppose change because of perceived risks. We know that life is full of risks and can never be fully eliminated. Sometimes you have to walk by faith. If you want to grow you have to change.

But I’d like to explore the other side of the coin with you. What about those times when change is not for the best? How do you know if it’s the right thing to do or not? Here are five questions to help guide you through the decision-making process.

Does the change compromise your core values?

Your core values are a reflection of who you are and every decision your organization makes flows out of these values. If the change you are considering in any ways compromises your values then change would not be advisable.  If on the other hand they support and strengthen those values then proceed.

Does the change compromise your integrity?

At the end of the day your core values and integrity are the two most essential things you have that drive your business and the way in which you do it. If the proposed change you are considering compromises your integrity then the answer is a no-brainer. Don’t do it.

Does the change add value or subtract value?

Your success has been tied in large part to the value and service you have provided to others. If this change idea you have is going to subtract value in any way to your employees or to those you serve then perhaps it’s not the best change decision. Is there not a better way to move forward?

Does the change pass the smell test?

What is the underlying motivation for making this proposed change? Is it primarily a political one? Has it been hastily presented? These can be and usually are red flags that should not be overlooked. If it does not pass the smell test then chances are the change idea is not a good idea.

Does the change inspire and call forth the best from your team?

Not all change is welcomed nor is it easy to execute. But you will know it is right when the enthusiasm of the buy-in far exceeds the negativity of the change. When your team has been inspired, challenged, and embraces this change then you know you have made a good decision. If the opposite is true then you may want to pivot and consider other options.

It was George Bernard Shaw who said, “Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.” Welcome change, embrace change, and desire change. But at the end of the day, make sure it’s the right change.

What do you say?

© 2013 Doug Dickerson

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Leadership Minute: The Green- Eyed Monster

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Jealousy is the tribute mediocrity pays to genius. – Fulton J. Sheen

Hang around in leadership long enough and at some point you will encounter jealousy. It’s not uncommon in the workplace and it eventually shows up. You can’t be responsible for how another person feels when it comes to their jealous ways and you should never apologize for the level of success you achieve. What you can do is be gracious. Overlook the petty jealousies of those around you, show them a better way, and don’t fall into the jealousy game yourself. You have too much to be thankful for and too much at stake to entertain such notions. When you are the target of jealousy rise above it, let it go, keep running your race.

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Leadership Minute: Favorite Things

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My favorite things in life don’t cost any money. It’s really clear that the most precious resource we all have is time. – Steve Jobs

As a leader time is one of the most important things you manage. How you fill the 24 hours of each day you are given matters. What you fill it with is a reflection of your values and priorities. Who you spend it with says even more. Your greatest resource as a leader is time. Make the best of it. Make the most of it. Never squander it. You will never get another chance to do something meaningful with the time you have today. What are your favorite things?

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Leadership Minute: Keep Flying!

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The Wright brothers flew right through the smoke screen of impossibility. – Charles Kettering

The tenacity of the Wright brothers is what is needed in order to be successful. Too often people give up just before they achieve success. The successful leader is aware of his/her challenges and the risks involved, but still believe they can fly. What challenges do you face today? What doubts have filled your mind? Cast them aside, renew your confidence, pick up your wings and get ready to fly. Don’t get discouraged and don’t give up. The headwinds you face will give you the lift you need. Get ready to fly!

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