Why Do Some Leaders Experience Burnout?

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Like as the waves make towards the pebbl’d shore, so do our minutes, hasten to the end. – William Shakespeare

Architect Frank Lloyd Wright once told of an incident that may have seemed insignificant at the time, but had a profound influence on the rest of his life. The winter he was 9, he went walking across a snow-covered field with his reserved, no- nonsense uncle. As the two of them reached the far end of the field, his uncle stopped him. He pointed out his own tracks in the snow, straight and true as an arrow’s flight, and then young Frank’s tracks meandering all over the field. “Notice how your tracks wander aimlessly from the fence to the cattle to the woods and back again,” his uncle said. “And see how my tracks aim directly to my goal. There is an important lesson in that.”

Years later the world-famous architect liked to tell how this experience had greatly contributed to his philosophy in life. “I determined right then,” he’d say with a twinkle in his eye, “not to miss most things in life, as my uncle had.”

So much is made over the responsibility and demands of leadership that we fail to learn the lesson that Frank Lloyd Wright points out. It is part of the delicate big picture of leadership that if not addressed can have lasting negative consequences.

This is evidenced by a recent report by ExecuNet (http://bit.ly/12vbxaD) that revealed  more than half (57%) of the executive recruiters they surveyed rated workloads as very high, and an additional 25 percent saying they are the highest they have ever seen. The survey also found that 53 percent believe executives’ current workloads are unsustainable and that employers will feel significant repercussions because they have stretched management leaders far too thin. So what are some of the warning signs of burnout in leaders? Here are three for your consideration.

Placing your policies above your people. When leaders place a higher value on policy than they do on people it will eventually lead to burnout. A disconnect between policy and people puts the leader in isolation with demands that only the leader wants or cares about. This approach reinforces busyness over productivity, conformity over creativity, and rules over relationships.

While policy is necessary it must not interfere with the leader’ first priority and that is the relationship he has to his people. Don’t allow policy burn you out; allow your people to be your source of inspiration and energy.

Placing your position above your principles. If all a leader cares about is his position then all he is going to be concerned about is protecting it. This attitude reveals both the weakness of the leader and his motives. It most certainly will lead to burnout.

Being a leader of principle is where the joy of leadership is found. If you are driven by your principles then you will not have to worry about your position. Fighting for a position will drain you of your energy, your effectiveness, and your longevity. Discover the joy of serving others and living by your principles. It will give greater satisfaction and reward than a title ever could.

Placing your popularity before your perspective. When the energy of the leader is bent towards popularity over perspective it is a sure pathway to burnout. It is the age old pitfall and trap that leaders must be on guard against. The temptation to embrace popularity over substance has been many a leaders’ downfall.

Being popular is not what makes you a strong leader. Perspective is what allows you to learn from the past, see into the future, make the hard decisions, and to lead with courage. The burden of choosing popularity over perspective is that the direction you travel is not of your choosing. Perspective causes you to lead with a steady hand.

Burnout has claimed many a leader. But you don’t have to be a casualty. Care about your people, lead with your principles, and keep your perspective. Save your energy for what truly matters and never forget to enjoy the journey.

 

© 2013 Doug Dickerson

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Leadership Minute: Don’t Give Up!

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Fred Rogers said, “How sad it is that we give up on people who are just like us.” What a powerful thought for leaders to contemplate. As a leader many people cross our paths and we tend to make judgments based upon perceptions. How sad it is that we can write people off without really knowing them. The next time you are tempted give up on someone take into consideration that it is possible that he or she, in ways you may not see or know, is just like you. Remember the Golden Rule.
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Leadership Minute: Pardon The Interruption

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Amelia Earhart said, “Never interrupt someone doing what you said couldn’t be done.” Attitude and expectations are two essentials in leadership. Regardless of what your expectations are, if you have a bad attitude you will not get very far. With regards to your attitude, it can put you over the top even when you the odds are against you. Don’t allow your own negative thoughts to hold you back and by all means don’t allow anyone to interrupt you when you are doing what they said you couldn’t  The reach of your potential should not be determined by people who do not believe in you and interrupt you. Stay focused and follow your passions!
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Leadership Minute: Be Present

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Jim Rohn said, “Give whatever you are doing and whoever you are with the gift of your attention.” Leaders are busy people. I get it. There are endless demands and responsibilities to take care of and being in the moment undistracted can be a challenge. But the greatest gift you can give others is the gift of your attention. What may appear on first read to you as a distraction or interruption of your time could be a turning point in the life of another. Take time to be in the moment and be generous with your presence.

 

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Leadership Minute: Build A Bridge

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Isaac Newton said, “We build too many walls and not enough bridges.” One of the functions of a good leader is that of building bridges. Walls make it difficult to connect; to be in relationship – it hinders progress. In leadership we need to learn to build bridges. Too often we are content to live in our compartmentalized world without knowing, discovering, and appreciating the value others can bring into our lives. The only way to discover what is on the other side of the walls we’ve created is to knock them down. It’s time to build bridges, to connect, and start discovering a whole new world you’ve never seen before.

 

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Leadership Minute: Do You Know Where You Are Going?

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Muhammad Ali said, “I know where I’m going and I know the truth, and I don’t have to be what you want me to be. I’m free to be what I want.” In leadership it is important to know who you are, where you are going, and comfortable enough in your own skin to not worry about what anyone else thinks. One of the great joys of leadership is found in knowing what is true about yourself and being confident enough to lead with humility. Do you know where you are going?

 

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4 Blind Spots Every Leader Must See

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The only thing worse than being blind is having sight but no vision – Helen Keller

Max Lucado shares a story about Bob Edens. For 51 years he was blind and could not see a thing. His world was a black hall of sounds and smells. He felt his way through five decades of darkness. And then, he could see. A skilled surgeon performed a complicated operation and for the first time, he had sight. He found it overwhelming.

“I never would have dreamed that yellow is so…yellow,” he exclaimed. “I don’t have the words. I am amazed by yellow. But red is my favorite color. I just can’t believe red. I can see the shape of the moon- and I like nothing better than seeing a jet plane flying across the sky leaving a vapor trail. And of course, sunrises and sunsets. And at night I look at the stars in the sky and the flashing light. You could never know how wonderful everything is.”

Sight is a beautiful thing. Blind spots, especially for leaders, can be problematic. A story in QSR magazine cited a study by Development Dimensions International that said 91 percent of managers have at least one blind spot, and the average manager has three. Brad Thomas, a manager at DDI said, “Those blind spots don’t just hurt the individual who has them, they can hurt the entire company.” Leaders today must be aware of their blind spots and be willing to correct them. What are yours? Here are four common blind spots you need to see and why they matter.

The effect of a bad attitude. Zig Ziglar said, “Your attitude, not your aptitude, determines your altitude.” This is a powerful truth to know. It is even more powerful when you can practice it. The attitude you have is one of the most contagious and visible characteristics of your leadership. It is important to understand the effect that your attitude has on the culture of your company.

Your attitude is the thermostat by which others around you will conform. On average, the attitude of your team will not rise any higher than yours. If your attitude is poor it will be reflected in the company’s morale, performance, and is an indicator of its future. Simply put, you cannot allow a bad attitude to be a drag on your company because it is a blind spot for you. Pay attention to it and check it daily. After all, it is a choice.

The consequence of prejudices.  This blind spot goes far beyond the scope of any racial implications. It is the result preconceived notions you make about colleagues, clients, or customers. It is making and embracing assumptions that may not be accurate based upon your limited understanding.

When you allow your prejudices to influence you as a leader you are allowing them to define you as a leader. Instead, why not abandon your prejudices and look upon everyone with an open mind, give clients the respect they deserve and your customers the benefit of the doubt. Prejudices have no place in your business and they certainly have no place in your heart. It is a blind spot you need to see and remove.

The price of poor people skills. This blind spot is the source of many of your leadership headaches. Your business savvy and skill will be undermined if you lack courtesy and respect. It is one thing to possess the ability to cast vision and manage the company’s bottom line, but if you can’t have a 30-minute lunch with a client without checking your phone messages five times it screams of poor etiquette.

Frederick L. Collins said, “There are two types of people in the world: those who come into a room and say, “Here I am!” and those who come in and say, “Ah, there you are!”  People skills will make you or break you in leadership. Take care of people and they will take care of you. It is a blind spot you simply cannot ignore.

The trappings of an over-inflated ego. This blind spot will destroy your effectiveness if left unchecked. Colin Powell said, “Don’t let your ego get too close to your position, so that if your position gets shot down you ego doesn’t go with it.” Unfortunately, many leaders are trapped in the surroundings of their own creation that skewers reality. As a result they see the world they work in through the lens of “yes” people which can hinder more than help.

Blind spots can cause problems regardless of who you are but for leaders it has a far-reaching effect. The blind spot of ego is overcome by humility and serving others. Keep a healthy perspective of who you are and keep it grounded in reality. By paying attention and keeping yourself accountable you can steer clear of these pitfalls and lead with clarity.

 

© 2013 Doug Dickerson

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Leadership Minute: Keep Planting

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Og Mandino said, “Always do your best. What you plant now, you will harvest later.” As a leader, it is important to take every opportunity to plant seeds for the future. In doing so you are not only securing a bright future for yourself but for those you lead. As you generously sow seeds of your time, talent, and treasure you are demonstrating that you not only care about the present but are serving causes greater than self. Be generous in sowing seeds that will be a blessing to others knowing that it is an investment of your leadership. Be generous. Keep planting!

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Leadership Minute: Lead With Wisdom

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Charles Dickens said, “There is a wisdom of the head, and a wisdom of the heart.” In leadership you need both. You need wisdom of the head to formulate dreams, vision, and strategy. The wisdom of the head is about why you do what you do. You need wisdom of the heart so you can relate to people, understand human nature, and lead with emotional intelligence. The wisdom of the heart is about how you do what you do.  It is when you effectively combine the two that you can lead with wisdom.

 

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Leadership Minute: Know When To Let Go

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Abraham Lincoln said, “When you have got an elephant by the hind legs and he is trying to run away; it’s best to let him go.” As a leader knowing what to let go of is an important part of your leadership skill. While there are things that are worthy of your time and attention you also need to know when to cut your losses and move on. Sometimes we try too hard to hold on to those we should let go. When you understand that you can’t do it all, reach all, and be all, the better off you will be. Sometime it’s the people who leave you that do you the greatest favor. Learn to let go.

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