Why Your Perspective Matters

Success in life comes not from holding a good hand but from playing a poor hand well. – Denis Waitley

A man reads an ad in the newspaper, “Hunting dog for sale, $2,500 but well worth it.” He called the number, and the man told him he had to see the dog. The following day, they met and went hunting early.

The dog flushed two birds from a clump of bushes, and when they fell into the water, he walked on top of the water, grabbed the birds, and walked back on top of the water. The man was amazed and bought the dog on the spot. The next day, he persuaded his brother to go hunting with him. They flushed a couple of birds, and the dog again walked on top of the water, retrieved the birds, and walked back to their boat on top of the water.

He asked his brother what he thought of the dog, and the brother replied, “So you bought a dog that can’t swim?”

The brother’s response is like that of some people you and I know, right? Regardless of how well things may be going, one person will always be the one who can’t help themselves and will see or say something negative. Even though the dog can walk on water, you’ll hear from someone who will notice that the dog can’t swim.

A 2022 PSP Metrics article cited a Bureau of Labor Statistics report that “negativity in the workplace costs businesses $3 billion a year due to its harmful effects. Workplace negativity is like a disease, and even the best companies aren’t immune.” As unfortunate as this may be, there are two things you need to be mindful of as a leader.

You are responsible for your attitude and perspective.

Here’s a leadership truth you can take to the bank: your attitude will make or break you. Zig Ziglar said, “Your attitude determines your altitude.” How high, how far, and how productive you desire to be is directly linked to your attitude. With a good and healthy attitude and perspective, your potential and possibilities are unlimited.

In 1914, when Thomas Edison’s lab was destroyed by fire. Including one-of-a-kind prototypes and causing $23 million in damage, Edison’s response was simple: “Thank goodness all of our mistakes are burned up. Now we can start fresh again.”

Hang around in leadership long enough, and you will experience the exhilaration of successes and the disappointments of failures. Your attitude in both will give you the perspective you need for the long haul. But remember, your attitude and perspective are directly linked to your success. Choose wisely.

You are responsible for leveraging your influence as much as possible.

You are not personally responsible for the attitudes and perspectives of those around you. While it might undoubtedly improve your workplace culture if you were, it’s something that you have no direct control over.

That being said, you are responsible for leveraging your influence as a leader in a way that others will desire to emulate.

Here’s what I know: your words, your attitude, your perspective, your demeanor, and your tone serve as a thermostat for those around you. When appropriately set, you can positively influence those around you. And while there will perhaps be some who will not choose the positive perspective over the negative one, you can at least take heart in knowing you did your part.

Your perspective and attitude matter, and it’s a choice you must make. Harvey Mackay framed it this way, “When you wake up every day, you have two choices. You can either be positive or negative, an optimist or a pessimist. I choose to be an optimist. It’s all a matter of perspective.”

What choice are you making today?

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